It’s all the daily choices you make that make the difference

"Poe (Pearl)" by John Andro AvendañoWhether one is young or old, people are raised a certain way. For example, in our culture, many people think there’s still a thing called job security. There really isn’t. Security comes from within, not without. It’s all centered around the fear of not knowing if you can make a living – buy cars, clothes, get married – all the things people want in their lives. You have to realize, no matter what field you choose, you have to be able to pay the price of your choices. Since not matter what, no one else will ultimately bear that burden but you. It’s difficult to make the choice to be an artist when you’re married or have kids. Even so, if you’re going to be true to yourself, you’ll eventually get to the point where everyone’s pissed off at you. People close to you might call you selfish, or self-centered, egotistical, or self-righteous. A lot of people don’t like that type of pressure. You may not like it. It might not be the most pleasant thing to deal with. But no matter what, you’re going to have to be OK with it. You have to stay focused and move on. Because to live your life’s path is more important than anything. If you instill the idea in your kids that money is a security blanket, and you’ve given up a part of yourself to make a living, kids see that. If you’re tied up in a knot, and not living the way your true self speaks to you, they’ll follow the same path you’re teaching them. So there’s a lot at stake with learning how to live your life’s path. There’ll be a lot of pain, torment, indecision, and grief. But if you get past that, and you’re convinced, and you’ve convinced your loved ones there’s no other way, it becomes easier. I don’t do yard work, I don’t fix cars, I don’t really have any honey-dos. I create. That’s what I do. Seven days a week. If you put less than four hours a day into whatever creative pursuit you’re doing, whether it’s writing, acting, painting, or being a musician, chances are it’s not going to happen. It’s only when you’re so tired that you’re falling asleep creating because you can’t do anymore that day, then you know you’re on the right track. And when you make some money from selling your art, you buy materials. It’s the daily choices you make that will make the difference.

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